
Q. My boyfriend and I have been saving for a house deposit for a number of years. His brother recently inherited some money and agreed to loan us โฌ15,000. On the basis that the money from my boyfriendโs brother was a gift, the bank approved the mortgage. It was always agreed between my boyfriend and I that we would pay his brother back when we were in a position to. When we spoke to our solicitor, we were told the bank would need my boyfriendโs brother to sign a โdeed of confirmationโ. He said that he wouldnโt be able to sign it. Weโre at a loss for what to do.
Dear Reader,
It is generally accepted in Irish law that when someone provides money towards the purchase of a property, they would be entitled to an โequityโ. While case law has dealt more with the situation that may arise as between a married or cohabitating couple, the same principals apply to monies advanced by other parties.
As the law stands, your boyfriendโs brother may be entitled, as a matter of law, to an equity in the property given he has advanced the sum towards the purchase. The deed of confirmation is a standard document required by the bank in circumstances where a person, other than the parties mortgaging the property, provides funds towards the purchase.
The deed usually states that the person who advanced the money is aware that the property is going to be subject to a mortgage, that the bank can take steps to realise their security should there be a default, and that the person who advanced the money will take no steps to recoup the money from the property.
This is all done in an effort by the bank to ensure that, should you ever default on the loan, that the bankโs legal security over the property has priority over whatever interest your boyfriendโs brother may hold.
It is important to note that your boyfriendโs brother is not waiving any right he may have in the property or saying that he is not owed any monies, simply that the bankโs interest will rank in priority to his. Should you repay the monies owed to your boyfriendโs brother then he would have no equity in the property.
This can be a difficult situation to resolve within the family. You could enter into a formal loan agreement with your boyfriendโs brother. That said, this would likely affect the proposal you submitted to the bank. Perhaps your boyfriendโs brother could take advices from his own solicitor to reassure him as to the nature and effect of the deed.


